Feel Free

Fellas, if you have an upcoming date with a fashion forward chick, read this article to delve into understanding the mind of a fashionista. This is guaranteed to increase your chances of scoring. 60% of the time it works. Every time. Courtesy of Li Yen @ Kaitlin & Summer

 

www.kaitlinandsummer.com

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"I never look at labels when I buy clothes... What really grabs me is whether clothes are comfortable or not. I like to feel free" Audrey Tautou, Vogue UK, August 2009.

First of, I have to say that as hard as we try to forget our labels, truth be told, people (girls) do not forget. Especially our favourite labels. But what I'm talking about today is comfort-amnesia - when we forget to consider whether we're going to be comfortable wearing or donning our purchases. 

I can honestly say there have been too many times in my life when I thought that I could walk in those shoes (explaining that pile of shoeboxes in my closet) or wear that dress simply because I liked the shoes or the dress and didn't think much about the way I was going to feel in them. 

Yes, the final result would presumably look stylish and attractive, otherwise I wouldn't have put those things on to begin with... but more often than not, the clothes in question were chosen for ideal situations where the roads are flat and spaghetti is not a menu item. 

What real life mannequins we all can be. As the quote goes, 'Women suffer for fashion' (and men suffer for women) - funny how we are all sadomasochists at heart.

As I got older I realised that no matter how much I like a certain item it is never going to work if a) it does not fit perfectly b) it requires me to change my (life)style in order for me to wear it.

I still vividly recall the horrible feeling of walking in very uncomfortable shoes (especially those that cut!) simply because they looked good with the outfit I planned in my mind. I did look good... but what excruciating pain I experienced a couple of hours later.
 
Another silly situation is to go out in a dress or top that's not a perfect fit. The glamourous and sensual look you're after goes down the drain from repeated costume adjustments and fidgeting all evening.

My advice to all the girls is to remind yourself of how important it is to choose clothes that suit you AND fit you and your personality. Wear heels, but spend the money on the perfect pair, aesthetic and fit-wise. 

Girls (and Boys), buy clothes that make you feel confident and stylish at the same time. Don't pick up pieces that require you to change your lifestyle, go on a diet, or sell your grandmother. 

Buy clothes that make you feel...
what's the word?
oh yes.




free. 


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Li Yen is the co-proprietor of Kaitlin & Summer - a dream boutique for like-minded shopaholics.

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5 perks of Having a Boyfriend

So I was watching a video by WongFu Productions:

and well, here is my version of my 5 perks of having a boyfriend.

#1 He pays for everything.

But like what Rick says as above, it's not a perk it's an INJUSTICE.

...Fine. I'll play fair too.

REAL #1 He is your Knight in Shining Armour

...when you're bullied. Your Knight tackles them with brutal eloquence.

...when it comes to killing horrendous creepy crawlies (only God knows why those creatures were brought into existence).

...when you freak out when your tech gadget freezes, because you're technologically disabled - and he's not. He then patiently gives you a step-by-step, because...men like solutions.

#2 He calls you Beautiful all the time

Now the male species may not care if they are not reminded of their muscular, and chiselled looks everyday (I may be wrong), but as for the female species...it's a whole different story (I may be wrong too).

A little appreciation, even if it is dishonest at times does work wonders in making you feel less...crappy. With sticky green goo exiting your nose, it's hard to be called anything except...boogery.

Men, a little white lie goes a loooong way.

Instant affection.

#3 He buckles when you get Upset (mostly, when you Cry)

Women, this is our secret weapon.

Not in the mood to go alone to that event your friends are making you go to? State your reasons, and get a little tremble in your voice...

"Okay honey I'll follow you, I'll just skip that match. Don't be upset okay?"

Had a rough day at work, get home and find out there's a sink full of dirty dishes from last night and you have to make dinner?

The pressure can be too much, and you find yourself getting hot and bothered and finally...the tears start falling.

Relax. He's driven over and already got his Spanish Torero apron on, peeling potatoes for his very delicious Shepard's pie.

Not only that...he washes up with little or no complaints!

Woman on top? Definitely.

#4 He inspires you

A loving heart is the beginning of all knowledge - Thomas Carlyle

It's great to be with someone who inspires you; someone you admire. Be it his academic ability, his sporting ability, or his personal character - you can always learn something new from him.

Don't believe in yourself? Well, he does and encourages you every step of the way ensuring you don't doubt yourself again.

An amazing boyfriend isn't one who showers you with kisses and gifts, but is one who supports and motivates your passions.

With so much experience to share, the both of you can inspire each other to be the best person you (and he) can be.

#5 Romance

Everyone needs a little romance in their lives.

The little heart jumps when he's knocking on your door for your weekend dates, the rising colour in your cheeks when you catch him intensely looking at you, the smile he puts on your face when he surprises you with a hand-written poem he took all weekend to compose...

Sometimes, being silly brings out the romance in us too - as Rose Franken once said:

Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly

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Of course, having a boyfriend is also great for a whole lot of other stuff...

*clears throat*

Anyway. So ladies, what are YOUR perks of having a boyfriend?

And men, what are your perks of having a girlfriend? I've never had one, you see...

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Surviving an LDR aka. Long Distance Relationship

LDR what?

Here's an acronym worth knowing, as essential as the ever-saving LBD. Lil' Black Dress if you were wondering.

The Kardashians in LBDs

So. It's the LDR, also known as the dreaded Long Distance Relationship.

You fall in love with an amazing girl, with the thought that she'll never leave your side.

Well, she does and- BAM! You're saying your stiffly sniffles, waving goodbye and assuring her (and yourself) a little distance won't hurt.

Welcome to the LDR Club.

You're officially in a 'Long Distance Relationship'.

Cringing at the thought?

Considered one of the worst types of relationships as the distance may not necessarily make the heart fonder, but in fact yonder far...and beyond, thank your lucky stars you're not in one.

But if you are and still going strong, well I say brownie points and may you survive the distance and time until you are finally together (literally).

Luckily for you, I've got some effective advice for surviving a Long Distance Relationship.

1. It's HARD work, so it needs EXTRA effort

Not nobody, but everybody has had something to say before you embarked on one of the hardest journeys ever: Keeping your relationship with that girl who is a 2 hour flight away from you or even worse, in a -8 hour timezone.

Have free text and minutes? Use it on your relationship.

No such luxury?

Make use of Skype, Oovoo (up to 6 people can video talk at once) or even Facetime through your swanky new iPhone 4s while shopping for groceries at downtown Tesco because you are missing that pasta dish she makes so well and recreating it will make you feel thaat much closer to her.

Facetime on the iPhone

Committed men tend to handle LDRs better (in my experience), but well, you know women.

Nag, nag, nag.

Whine, whine, whine.

Cry, cry, cry.

Dudeee. But you're still there for her because this distance hubba is just temporary and you really, really do love her.

Women in an LDR hate feeling insecure so any decreased activity in affection will result in an atomic bomb blowing up over the phone. Or even that dreaded text: I hate you I never want to talk to you again!

LDRs need even harder work and it tests the capability of the both of you whether you can weather the storm (of a couple of months, or even years).

Question is, can you take the extra mile?

I've witnessed quite a number of failed LDRs, and it's saddening to see how one just stops working on the relationship.

Love gives life, and life keeps you living. When love diminishes, it just brings death.

It's a fact. Heartbreak is painful.

I always say: A relationship shouldn't be a one-way road. Give and take.

That's how some LDRs are able to work. Each partner gives love, and both receives love. It's a win-win beneficial relationship which then grows and strengthens your bond.

2. Be Understanding

He's in a different time zone. She's working a night shift.

Don't give your partner beef because she wasn't on Skype at the promised time.

Creating fights when you are not in close proximity takes a longer time to heal so try not to get upset over trivial issues.

3. Communicate Daily

Here's one of the best advice on keeping a relationship strong. Long distance or not. You have to communicate with one another EVERY, SINGLE day (if you can).

Bollocks about "we're cool, we can just Skype over the weekend" crap. Events happen so quickly, especially if you're both busy that weekend chats will pass by in a blur.

You don't want to wait until the weekend to share your thoughts, experiences, etc. You might even forget the urgent issues and further widen the communication gap between you two.

Too tired? Text your lover goodnight, sending instructions where to meet you in your dreams. At least when your partner reaches home he'll be able to sleep with a smile on his face, knowing that you love him.

Communication builds a strong foundation of understanding, and you become more emphatic towards what your partner is experiencing in her part of the world.

4. Don't Stray

With or without an LDR. It's a no-no rule in the relationship bible.

Straying just because that chick was more convenient (right there to talk to, etc) is wrong.

Before you undress her with your eyes (and soon enough, fingers), imagine how YOU would feel if your girlfriend back home a thousand miles away happens to be doing the same exact act to a man who isn't you. Also, one who is possibly hotter, funnier & smarter than you?

Like shit, right?

So just don't do it. It's not worth losing your relationship.

5. Set Future Goals

A long distance relationship should always have an expiry date, so the both of you can expect when this long and tedious long distance relationship will end.

Remember. Internally, women have biological clocks and whether or not it has kicked in, if you can't give a definite answer when you are coming back chances are she might be looking elsewhere later on to not waste her time on you.

6. Keep the Spark ALIVE!

Long distance relationships are a breeding ground for inactivity and boredom, so relight that spark or keep it going on by being creative.

Surprise her with a visit, plan trips together, send her a handwritten love letter (e-mails just don't cut it, sorry. Letters have that 'raw' edge and really, when was the last time you received a personal love letter other than bills?), and loads more!

There are so many creative and cool ideas you can muster up (or source online) and present to your woman.

Even if some are downright lame, she'll applaud your initiative and this will earn you brownie points redeemable when you next see her... Now boys, wouldn't you want that? ;)

I hope that helped!

P.S: If you're asking if it's worth it being in a Long Distance Relationship... Well, if you can imagine yourself with that beautiful person in the future and it feels right, then by all means, follow your instinct!

Oh, and a Happy Rabbit Year to all!

- Saran

xx

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Interview with a Shy Guy

Saran prodded me the other day, eager to answer one of womankind's most elusive questions - "What is the way to a shy guy's heart?". Personally, I'm not exactly a shy person, thus I sought answers from the source.


I sought out a shy guy.

The following individual shall not be named, because he is after all, shy. We will call him Sergio the Shy Senor and this is the raw excerpt of the interview that will answer the age old question


"How do you find your way into the heart of a shy guy?"


R: Happy New Year Sergio. You do realize that contributing to the advancement of womankind's advances towards mankind will surely be the noblest thing you do this year?


S: Undoubtedly so.

R: Allow me to spare you any more niceties and get straight to the point. What is the best way to tap into a shy guy's heart?


S: Oh this is the question that Saran chick wants to know the answer to, right?


R: That is correct.


S: Does she want to tap into my heart?


R: No. 


S: Dang.


    Wait. So you're saying I'm a shy guy???


R: That is correct.


S: Ok. I admit. I am a shy guy.


R: But one thing is for sure. Some ladies can't tell. Some of them might just see you as being stone-cold awesome cool. Apparently to them, cool quiet guys > babbling idiots. 


S: For real?


R: How would you feel if a woman came up directly to you and told you she was into you?


S: I would be stunned. It would be better if she just came up and had a casual chat with me.


R: How should her approach be like, specifically? Just walk up to you and say "Hello my name is Hotchick Lee?"


S: That works if we're in a social gathering. But... if we're in a public place, I don't think that would be a good idea. 


R: Why wouldn't it be a good idea?


S: As a shy guy, frankly, I wouldn't know how to react. Perhaps it's a matter of experience as well. Repeated exposure would wear off the nervousness and allow me to loosen up a bit and be myself.

R: Mmm hmm.


S:  Perhaps if both parties had mutual friends, it would be great if our mutual friends could introduce us.


R: Chickenshit.


    


     I'm kidding.


     How would you feel if the woman was the one asking you out instead of vice versa?


S: You called me chickenshit!


R: I was joking. Get over it. And besides, it'll look good on the blog.


S: Are you sure?


R: Yes. Now answer the question.


S: I'm actually fine with being asked out. In the past, when that happened, I used to get defensive and ask who else would be coming along. But nowadays, I'll just go along with it.


    And uh oh yeah, chatting online is a good idea! The Internet somehow makes me feel more     secure. 


R: That's creepy. In a good way. 


S: Thank you.


R: Are you okay with the idea of a woman dominating the conversation? Or does that scare you off?


S: Dominating... as in more than 80% of it?


R: More like 77.25%


S: In the context of this conversation there is no real difference between 80% and 77.25%.


R: Yeah. I was just trying to be funny. Now you've ruined it by rationalizing it. 


S: Oh. My bad.


    Back to your question. Somehow... I think I would mind if a woman dominated the conversation. But at the same time, I would prefer her to be rather chatty. The reason being that sometimes I tend to just run out of interesting topics.


    In fact I think a conversation should run both ways. I know men tend to talk less, but sometimes, we still have profound things to say.

    There was this one time when I went out with a girl who talked a lot. I don't mind chatterboxes to be honest. But she pretty much spent the entire evening talking about nothing but herself. Every single time I tried to put forth my views, she immediately changed the topic back to herself. It was really annoying.


R: Amen brother. I'm annoyed now myself. 


S: Hey, but this is different. You're interviewing me.


R: You know that rationalization-ruining-jokes thing I mentioned earlier?


S: Point taken.


R: So how did the date end?


S: In peace. I didn't cut her tongue out or anything. But let's just say I got to know her A LOT better.


R: Haha. That last line was pretty funny actually.


     I'm assuming you wouldn't ask her out again?


S: D to the UH, my brother.


R: Uh-huh. So what would be your idea of an ideal date?


S: A long dinner... at a place where we could both chat about ourselves and get to know each other better.

R: So no over-the-top dates that draw too much attention to yourselves, I presume? You lean toward the quiet and toned-down scenarios?


S: Yup. Maybe for the first two or three dates at least, while we're building a comfort zone around each other. After that, I'd get to know what the girl's interests are... and then perhaps we could try them out and see if I would be comfortable.


R: Would you mind sharing with the world your best date experience to date (puns, puns, puns everywhere!)?


S: You know R, to be honest, I've only been on maybe 4 dates. They all ended after the first date, because I didn't think we could get along well. 


    I think the key is simply to have conversations that both parties can appreciate. 


R: That's perfect. I think this might be getting a little long for blog posting purposes. Can I post your photo on the blog by the way?


S: I'm fine with you posting this conversation... but my photo? I'm shy remember?


R: Oh yes. Silly me.

Summary: Shy Guys 101

• Don't approach one in a public place. Look for opportunities within more intimate social settings, e.g. parties, group dinners, group activities, etc.
• Don't be overly direct with how you feel towards Mr. Shy Guy. Ease him in with casual conversation to get things going.
• If you both have mutual friends, use em'. 
• If both of you have Instant Messaging (Whatsapp, MSN, Skype), use it.
• There is no rule against you making the first move and asking him out. Do it subtly of course.
• Talk about mutually interesting topics. Shy guys (and guys in general) like Sergio do not enjoy the company of self-centered women.
• In fact, since you're dealing with a shy guy, gently ask him questions about himself and things that are important to him to get him to open up and feel comfortable. 
• No open-mic night crowd participation first dates. Keep it simple with quiet dinners that are conducive for non-threatening, deep, meaningful conversation.
• As far as possible, be cool with him rationalizing every joke you make. 

Till next time.

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(Ladies,) The Reason Why You're Still Single

You may have met her.

You may be her. 










You're smart. You're sexy. You're beautiful. 


But to top it all off - you're single.


If you're that 'it' girl who just can't seem to find Mr. Right... this goes out to you.

For fear of making a sweeping statement, I first must enter my run-of-the-mill disclaimer - there are a myriad of reasons why wonderful women have difficulty finding a suitable mate - work pressure, societal expectations, medical conditions... but the one thing I've noticed so far in many otherwise 'complete' women is


a lack of sense of humor.








Both sexes often list 'sense of humor' as one of their top priorities when it comes to selecting a life partner. But what's missing here is context. Both sexes say the same thing, but mean it in two very different ways.


When a woman says it, she's referring to a man who's quick-witted, has a good vocabulary and is tastefully smooth when it comes to making her laugh.


But when a man says "I want a woman with a sense of humor"... whoa boy. He's referring to something quite different.


When a man says "I want a woman with a sense of humor"... what he's actually trying to say is -




I want a woman who laughs at my jokes.






Women want to be loved, men want to be admired. 

Every single occasion you let out a hearty "HA HA" at one of his lame fart jokes, that man right there is beaming from the inside out. He feels the love emanating from your genuine, sincere laughter - which in man-brain-speak spells out "YOU ARE AWESOME".  

"And then... I FARTED!"

So, ladies, the next time you're wondering why you're drop-dead attractive but still staying home alone on Friday nights - remember the buzzword:






"HA HA"

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Your Say

Between Leceister Th'ng, Sreekanth Veerasamy and You

Rudi Cheu Teck Rule March 19 at 10:51am

Leicester Th'ng, sreekanth,

what are the top 5 outfits you guys like to see a woman wear?

e.g. summer dress, jeans + shirt, etc

thanks for taking the time to reply!

-Rudi

Leicester Th'ng March 19 at 4:40pm Reply

First and foremost... Suits! blazer, blouse with either pants (or trousers, watever you wanna call em...) or knee length skirts (definitely not flared) and matched with matching heels (maybe between 1 or 2 inches, nothing too high).Simple accesories like a summer scarves, pearls, small watch...definitely no tie!

Gotta get back to you for the next four. haha.

Sreekanth Veerasamy March 20 at 12:03am Reply

:) i saw this message in the afternoon and had been trying to figure out how many 'categories' of women wear are there that i know of. :P anyway, i could only think of certain clothing depending on the settings or function.

Actually to be honest, the first one that came to my mind is the same thing Kee Yie mentioned. A well-fit or tailored pants & suit is definitely outstanding, in a good way. Grey colored would be good.That professional look with a heel is a killer in the office.

On a trip to the mall, I like to see a woman in the blue jeans (Levi's kind) & a fit t-shirt (white maybe?) n heels of course. However , this comes with some kinda rule; a relatively good body shape and the t-shirt is not too vulgar (as in where you could actually know the color of their inner wear,). Now, that doesn't leave much to imagination, does it?

OK now i'm lost already :P maybe i shall revert again when something comes to my mind/eyes.

But there's one thing i know i dont like to see though. Those flared thin looking, wrinkled cotton (almost tissue paper texture) skirts that every woman seems to own one. I just dont get it.

Leicester Th'ng March 20 at 12:26am Reply

Summer dresses! colourful with a maximum of 2 or 3 main colours. Spaghetti straps, halter or just plain sleeveless (don't like off-shoulder) and flowy with length above the knee. thin enough to suggest a body yet not so much as to expose inner wear and light so that it moves and wraps around the body with the wind. Neckline low enough to suggest cleavage without exposure.

Casual, GOOD fitting pair of jeans. low cut but not so that butt cracks show everytime she bends down. Which brings us to the theme of wearing it with nice panties! :D paired with nice, simple but chic sandals, and blouse, T-shirt or any nice top (I would definitely go for bohemian). Simple accesories like watch OR bracelet (not AND), silver pendant and maybe shades.

One of my favourites, evening dresses! not to be confused with cocktail dresses. Type and make depending on shape, build and features of the woman.

And for winter, theres a type of women i especially ADORE, even though they're totally wrapped up. I need to find the description though cause I'm still not too sure how it's pulled off. :P Get back to ya soon!

Leicester Th'ng March 20 at 12:29am Reply

actually, summer dresses with a maximum of two main colours. just saw some with three and they're hideous!

All paired with matching handbags of course. How could I miss that. lol.

Rudi Cheu Teck Rule March 31 at 3:45pm

sweet. may I I'm gonna use this for the blog.

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The Four (Female) Style Mistakes

My mother actually requested this article.

Mismatched? Dispatch.

I have to qualify that I don't see this happening much. But when it does happen, it's tragic because women who mismatch their clothing are like clowns who aren't funny. That analogy is supposed to work because clowns are supposed to be funny.

Being a hottie doesn't give you a license to dress badly. As oblivious as the average straight man is, a well matching outfit will often subconsciously be noticed by the straightest of straight men and will get them thinking "there's something about that girl, I just can't decipher it."

Skimpy skimping

There is an adage that goes - the more a man wears, the better he looks (think: a great suit) and the less a woman wears, the better she looks. This is probably very open to debate, but personally I feel that a classy, sophisticated lady who doesn't need to bare bits and bobs of her body to attract attention beats a minimally dressed woman any day. Leaving more to the imagination is the way to go, ladies.

Saggy baggy

Some schools of thought have submitted that lesbianism comes about when women find that they are only attracted to the female form - the sensuous curves, the intricate styling and the artistic qualities of the female body are the features that earn a woman the prerogative of being described as "beautiful".



If you've got it, flaunt it.



In any case, something so beautiful as the female body should not be hidden beneath layers upon layers of ill-fitting garments. Whether you've got it or not, it is never the wrong answer to wear something that fits. Whether you're a size 16 or a size 0, The Bible says that "we are fearfully and wonderfully made". Thus, every curve lining your frame, every blob of cellulite on your body, makes you you. Trying to cover up those so-called imperfections by donning baggy clothes will only work against your case. Being "big" doesn't make you unattractive, but looking disproportionate might.

Made up, make up

This is probably a ridiculously overdone photoshop job, but, y' know, whatever it takes to illustrate a point.

I'm not going to step on any toes by denouncing the use of make-up, but I am going to say that if you want to know if a man loves you for who you are, face that fella without makeup. If he still looks you straight in the eye and tells you how beautiful you are, you've got a keeper. Or rather, you're the keeper.


Nothing better than a woman looking great au naturel.


A lot of women actually look better without makeup - especially if you have softer 'babyfaced' features as makeup tends to complement women with stronger features more readily. That being said, I speak for a large portion of the male population when I say that less is more when it comes to makeup.





But, as they say, there will always be exceptions.






An early start.

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Honey Do I Look Fat In This?

I was talking to a good friend the other day, and she told me a tale of an acquaintance of hers who is going on a one-apple-a-meal diet in order to lose weight to please her boyfriend. And this said acquaintance was originally not even anywhere near overweight. It broke my heart.


Ladies,


I have the utmost respect and understanding for the everyday woman's struggle in weight loss - society and pop culture ingrains in women the desire to be as thin as models gracing magazine covers and working the runways, and in men, the need to be broad and muscular like every big-screen action hero. Our culture has effectively dictated that women need to be rake thin and men need to be lean and mean in order to be loved and deemed as attractive. And we know everybody just wants to be loved :)




Sad to say, the trend towards the ideal man is healthier by leaps and bounds as compared to the expectations placed on the fairer sex. In order to achieve society's desired template, men are driven to put in hours exercising at the gym and eating copious amounts of food (an important qualification being some who pump themselves silly with supplements and steroids). On the other hand, in order to achieve the look of the "ideal woman", ladies are pushed towards a lifestyle of self-starvation and self-denial of the most basic of human indulgences - Ben & Jerry's, Cheesecake, Apple pie, Sarawak Laksa... opting instead to go to such lengths as eating a wheat biscuit and watercress leaves for lunch! And when you encounter such statistics as 1 in 200 American women are suffering from anorexia, it becomes evident that striving to become the ideal woman is supremely more unhealthy than the quest to become the ideal man.



I am here because I feel the status quo must be changed before many more innocent lives are put at stake for this very false idea of beauty. Curvier and more voluptuous women appeal to a broad range of men owing to inbuilt instincts that characterize ample bosoms and full posteriors as indications of fertility and health. Girls, I speak as an individual and I believe I also speak collectively for a substantial (if not the majority) part of the male race when I say -

The waif look is not attractive.

"The skinny woman doesn't appeal to me. If you visit the Renaissance Palaces in France, you'll see that attractive women are depicted as being of normal/larger size. The world is changing." - Stephen, 50, Corporate Executive.

"I think girls who are too thin miss out on the chance of developing secondary sexual traits which clearly ruin their looks. HAHA." - Arther, 20, Law Student.

"Skinny doesnt seem healthy. Skinny seems like skin and bones, so my answer have to be no, I do not find the skinny girls attractive." - Keat, 23, Mama's Boy.

"I don't like chubby girls nor do I like skinny girls. I like my women healthy!" - Praveen, 22, Dude.

"Nope, I've never fancied skinny models. I like meaty girls. Runway models are like ornaments - only for display purposes." - James, 26.

"Wellll.. I don't actually think that they are beautiful being that skinny. If anything, it puts me off. BUT it just so happens that most of the waif skinny chicks have very beautiful 'TV faces' which is why people forget that they are uglier than they appear... if that makes sense." - Hseng, 21, Stud (short for student).



Personally, I'm not advocating binge eating and pigging-out to pack on the pounds, as that would be equally as unhealthy. Instead, in my opinion, the most attractive women are often those who adopt healthy lifestyles characterized by a good wholesome diet and plenty of exercise. Such women are the real man's dream of a physically and emotionally complete woman, and are more likely to be confident, fulfilled and a joy to be around. And even if you're not exactly 'yoga-fit', have no fear, as I did a Google image search for the terms "attractive woman", and 9 out of 10 results represented women of normal or voluptuous build - try it for yourself! (Remember to keep 'Safesearch' on, people.)

So girls, it's not a big deal if your waist is 4 inches wider than Gisele's or if your thighs look like boulders compared to Naomi's. On behalf of all men in the world, I vow that the male race will love you for you, and that we can only grow to love you more the more you love yourself :)


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